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Muslims treat their women like sex slaves

Posted by The Mindset on May 13, 2011

If you ever want to know why Muslims behave in a peculiar way, just read Quran. Muslims try to find the answer of every question in Quran instead of using their brains because they believe  that Quran is the perfect book and Islam is the perfect religion – so why to use your brain.
So when it comes to ‘why Muslims treat their women like their property?’ the answer is in Quran.

Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (p.) said, “if a man invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then angels send their curses on her till morning.” (Bukhari: vol. 7, bk. 62, no. 121, Khan)

Here is a report that tells how Islam’s identification of women as slave-to-men has degenerated their position. Moreover the muslim women are not allowed to think or take decisions and have to oblige by whatever their husbands want to.

Silence on spousal sexual assault jarring: Doctors

LAHORE:
Gynecologists at several city hospitals have expressed their concerns over the growing number of married female patients who are forced into intercourse.

“The number of marital rape cases keeps going up but no one even acknowledges that the problem exists.We see dozens of patients coming in but they never acknowledge they have been raped; only that they were doing their duty,” says Ganga Ram Hospital consultant gynecologist Dr Shamsa Humayun. Dr Humayun said that she recently treated a mother-of-four, who had lost her pulse, consciousness and lots of blood pressure following a result of her third abortion. “I had warned her not to get pregnant because she had severe diabetes. I told her that her life was at risk but she chose abortion over contraception. Now she is dead,” Dr Humayun said.

Alviah Noor*, who is working on her PhD research paper and recently got married, said that she had severe vaginal infection for the last six months and was heavily medicated to treat an infection caused by her intra-uterine system (IUS or coil). “The coil ruined my health but it was the only contraception I could use without my husband finding out,” she said, adding that doctors had prohibited her from intercourse but her husband refused to listen to her. “I have no choice in the matter. I have to do whatever he tells me,” she said.

Nilofer Raja* complained that her husband had several extra marital affairs and that she had contracted an STD after he forced himself on her. “He abuses me but I cannot refuse him. My family told me that it was my religious duty to do as he demanded and that if I refuse the angels will curse me all night,” she told doctors.

Shirkat Gah representative Fauzia Vikar said “the concept of marital rape does not exist in our society. She is thought to have signed a contract for sex. Even in US, the first marital rape case was reported in 1978. Most reports from battered women reflect that they do not think their spouses are guilty of a crime.” “Most women I have spoken to on the issue simply think that marital rape is natural. We need to educate and economically empower women so that they realise it is not their duty to tolerate abuse,” she said.
According to Vikar, most women consider it shameful and a sin to oppose non-consensual sex. “There is almost no local literature available on the subject and not a single reported case to my knowledge,” she said.

Dr Ambreen Ahmad, a clinical psychologist who teaches at Lahore School of Economics said “We need to introduce couples counseling, especially before marriage because women need to know their rights. Many women consider it their ‘religious duty’ to undergo this when there is nothing in religion that condones such assault.”

According to Dr Rabia Ameen of General Hospital said “There is no sex education before marriage. This often leads to women contracting horrible diseases from unprotected sex. I feel terrible when I see young girls dying of reproductory problems because of irrational social expectations.”

Dr Ameen said “On average we deal with five cases of spousal rape every week and 90 percent of these cases occur within the first two weeks of marriage. Young brides aren’t aware that they have the right to put a stop to intercourse and we often see severe tearing and heavy bleeding in young women.” “I have lost count of the number of times I have simply stitched a vaginal tear and prohibited the couple from having intercourse for six weeks. The women almost always come back with the same problem because their spouses refuse to listen,” she said, adding “I now recommend that the woman stay at her parents’ house to be safe.” Dr Ameen said that women seldom know that it is even possible to be raped by their husband.

“They think that it is their duty to go along with whatever their husband wants and all we can do is recommend a course of treatment,” she said, adding that doctors often knew that their patients would not be allowed to rest.

Dr Shamsa Humayun, a gynecologist said that patients don’t complain of sexual abuse from their spouses even when the evidence is overwhelming. “I have examined women with severe vaginal tearing, enough that they needed stitches, but they still never admitted they were assaulted,” she said.

According to a gynecologist Dr Asmah Mehmood “Very few women in Pakistan actually have a healthy sexual relationship with their spouses. Abuse is common and so is violence.” She said “I have seen a woman who was the victim of the constant rape by her spouse simply because he was addicted to

pornographic films. She was abused so often that we eventually stopped even asking her what hadhappened.”

Dr Yasmeen Rashid said that in her 30-year career as a gynecologist she had never seen an official report relating to marital rape even though after delivery cases the most common cases she treated were related to women being sexually assaulted by their spouses.

The names of the victims, marked with an *, have been changed to protect their identity

Published in The Express Tribune, March 9th, 2011.

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17 Responses to “Muslims treat their women like sex slaves”

  1. Quran Alone said

    Sorry sir, do you really know what you’re saying? What you quoted is hadith, not Quran. I think you are an ignorant and to be spreading things that you don’t know of is a crime against truth. I think Quran protects the women more than to make them slaves than what you purported. If you say you have read the Quran I’m sure you have found these at least:

    Remember that women in the society are the guardians of your future generations, just as a garden keeps the seeds and turns them into flowering plants. So, whenever you meet with women socially, treat them with respect, keeping the aforementioned principle in mind. This conduct will go a long way to insure the betterment of the future generations. Send forth good today for the sake of tomorrow. Be mindful of God and know that you will, one day, face Him. O Messenger! Give good news to the believers. (2:223)

    Men are the protectors and supporters of women. They shall take full care of women with what they spend of their wealth. God has made men to excel in some areas and women to excel in some areas. Men should ensure that women are able to stand at their feet in the society. So, righteous women are obedient to God’s Ordinances and guard the moral values even in privacy, the values that God has commanded to be guarded. If you experience ill-treatment from them, apprise them of possible consequences. Next, leave them in their resting places, but keep admonishing them with examples. If they pay heed to you, do not seek a way against them. God is Most High, Great. (4:34)

    There are many other verses that speak highly of women and I think you should reconsider what you posted here or at least say that it is from a hadith not Quran like you stated here which the comparison is like night and day between those two. The translation I quoted was written by Dr. Shabbir Ahmed of ourbeacon.com. If you’re really honest about spreading information, although you said you have read the Quran plenty of time (which I seriously doubt, I’m sorry), I beg you please at least read Dr. Shabbir work with an open mind before continuing spreading something that you’re really mistaken about. It draws a big difference between what Islam really is and what Islam has become to be. If you still think of Islam fundamentally the same way after reading and understanding all of Dr. Shabbir’s work, then there’s nothing else could help you to see.

    • yes it’s hadith – by Bukhari. I know that.
      Secondly and MOST importantly – i have not said anything myself. I have quoted an article from Pakistan newspaper which explains how women are treated in Muslim society.

      I have one thing to say – You are Not What you SPEAK – You ARE what you ACT

    • Gonzo said

      I wonder Quran Alone, do you really not see your own contradiction?
      You disagree with The Mindset over the comment that women in Islam are treated as property and are often abused, and then you try to say that he does not know what he is talking about, as if to say that they are not. Then to prove your point you say that it is up to men to keep women in line per the Quran. That is basically saying that Islam maintains, via the Quran, that men have a greater position over women. So in effect, you admit that in Islam men are above women, which goes hand in hand with his comment that men use that position of authority over women and abuse them.
      Quit trying to excuse the inequality in Islam between men and women – you cannot excuse it because it is there and inexcusable.

    • The Knight said

      The Quran Alone “Koranimal” is so brain washed by the Pedophile Pig “Mo-Ham-Mad” (Piss Be Upon Him) revealtions that he considers woman to be worht half-man. For him there is nothing akward in Mooslimas to be covered in Burqa Bags. But these inbred Mooslime scums live in west, under the safety of so called “Dhimmis”, enjoy the freedom of west and whine about moral corruption in west and their try to implement their “Sharia Law”. Of course Mindset or anyone tries to convince with these Koranimals, they become so illogical and violent. Only way to these inbred Mooslime scums understand is to question their moolaaaah (Mullah) brainwashed feelings and force them to think, ofcourse looking their past, it might take another 1400 years to do that. it has to start at the Sowdi Arabia based Mecca (puke-a).

  2. Quran Alone said

    You know that but yet you said there and I quote “So when it comes to ‘why Muslims treat their women like their property?’ the answer is in Quran” and you cite Bukhari instead, not the Quran. There’s a lot of hadith that doesn’t agree with the Quran which shouldn’t portray what Islam is but that seem to be happening here. So, please, you are what you act right? Don’t be acting stupid here. Speaking is still an action anyway. It is bad enough for me to say Hindu is stupid because of your act here. But I don’t mean that in any way.

    Anyway, in your quoted article from Pakistan newspaper doesn’t any where mentioned about Muslim, only women in Pakistan at most. That could varies from any race and religion. Despite of percentage of population in Pakistan is 97% Muslim, there are still other religion that could be committing this . Only thing you connect it with the Bukhari that is only one case in the article but it could also be coming from any religion or culture as well. It is a presumption you made yourself trying to connect with your own hatred towards Muslim. Again please, you are what you act, no? Show some sensibility here.

    You’re attacking Islam as well not only Muslim. You can attack the Muslim society all you want I don’t really care but that is not because of what Islam taught if they fucked up. It’s their own problem, shouldn’t be the burden of the religion. I’m only protecting Islam fundamentally, thus those two sentence of the Quran shows you how Islam view of women as per the issue you brought up.

    I’ve seen a lot of injustice and cruelty done in the name of religion and that include almost every religion in this world but that doesn’t make those religion is wrong. One stupidity shouldn’t be the burden of the teachers. The Quran teaches many good things, same goes to the Bible, Torah, Mahabharata, Upanishads and the list goes on. I have a total respect for the teachings of any religion but even if the majority of follower who called themselves something and they do something against what their religion teaches, it’s them to be blamed.

    Lastly, sorry if I repeat myself a lot and sorry for any harshness.

    • I used the word Quran because it’s the main source of hadith. Hadith is explanation of Quran. you are again repeating the same thing . I have said that “This is how Muslims treat their women folks – that’s it”
      Have I said something wrong or factually incorrect.
      The article mentiones about Muslim Women – now aren’t Muslim Women = Muslim or are they something else…
      And what about the women in Afghanistan or India …Have you read about these two cases :-Shah Bano Case
      and Imrana Rape Case

      I am not saying anything – it’s the deeds of Muslims I am pointing at. if Muslims stop behaving in the way they behave I won’t get anyting to write at all.

      Hadith are a way to understand Quran. and what about these verses:
      1 Mature men are allowed to marry prepubescent girls [Sura 65:1, 4 ]
      2. Husbands may hit their wives [Sura 4:34]
      3. A husband may simply get rid of one of his undesirable wives [Sura 4:129]
      4. A man may be polygamous with up to four wives [Sura 4:3]
      5. Slave-girls are sexual property for their male owners [Sura 4:24]
      6. A wife may remarry her ex—husband if and only if she marries another man and then this second man divorces her [Sura 2:230]
      7. A woman’s testimony counts half of a man’s testimony [Sura 2:282]
      8. A male gets a double share of the inheritance over that of a female [Sura 4:11]
      9. Husbands are a degree above their wives [Sura 2:228]
      10. A husband has sex with his wife, as a plow goes into a field [Sura 2:223]

      • Quran Alone said

        Quran doesn’t need hadith to be explained. It can be understand by itself. Hence my name. Please do not associate Quran and hadith like you did. Hadith is hadith, Quran is Quran. What happened to Islam today is the result of thousands of hadith degrading the real meaning of Quran. When Quran were to read in it’s real context, not in any way altered by hadith, you shall find a different view of Islam. Please, read translation from Dr. Shabbir from ourbeacon.com if you really wants to know how Quran explained by itself without hadith. I just need you to see the difference between what Islam fundamentally with Muslim you see around you. Just to open the possibilities of you to pardon Islam for it’s Muslim followers. If you’re not interested doing so, then I rest my case.

        I’ve posted the fourth (Husbands may hit their wives [4:34]) and last point (A husband has sex with his wife, as a plow goes into a field [Sura 2:223]) in the first comment by the way. Thank you for your time.

        • Well, Thanks for your time. I also accept all your points because they are valid.
          I wanted to show you that how people use the religious texts to continue their beliefs.
          As the article says – “”My family told me that it was my religious duty to do as he demanded and that if I refuse the angels will curse me all night,” she told doctors.””

          So from where these things come from ….from the religion….for that I quoted the Hadith…simple
          Now you got my point or should we continue the debate :P

    • Islam in my view is what Muslims practice….keep the books aside

  3. jim morrison said

    “”I’m only protecting Islam fundamentally””

    Which is a pile of toxic garbage, started by one of the most evil despicable thugs in the history of mankind.

    It caters specifically to the human ego and its various manifestations, and the first example of this is that it creates a separate identity for a group of people and then claims superiority of that identity. This is sufficient for all the evil that we have seen islam create.

    Wake up mate, there is absolutely nothing good in it which cannot be found in other religions. Zilch. Zero. There are plenty of religions which are miles ahead of your religion.

    It is nothing but a curse for humanity. Stop defending it and join the rest of mankind or should I say 21st century?

  4. jim morrison said

    “”There are many other verses that speak highly of women “”

    Take a look at the actual verses. More like “very high cattle”. This guy shamelessly changes words and seeks to defend this crap. The dishonesty and delusion is unbelievable.

    002.222
    YUSUFALI: They ask thee concerning women’s courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them in any manner, time, or place ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.
    PICKTHAL: They question thee (O Muhammad) concerning menstruation. Say: It is an illness, so let women alone at such times and go not in unto them till they are cleansed. And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allah hath enjoined upon you. Truly Allah loveth those who turn unto Him, and loveth those who have a care for cleanness.
    SHAKIR: And they ask you about menstruation. Say: It is a discomfort; therefore keep aloof from the women during the menstrual discharge and do not go near them until they have become clean; then when they have cleansed themselves, go in to them as Allah has commanded you; surely Allah loves those who turn much (to Him), and He loves those who purify themselves.

    002.223
    YUSUFALI: Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.
    PICKTHAL: Your women are a tilth for you (to cultivate) so go to your tilth as ye will, and send (good deeds) before you for your souls, and fear Allah, and know that ye will (one day) meet Him. Give glad tidings to believers, (O Muhammad).
    SHAKIR: Your wives are a tilth for you, so go into your tilth when you like, and do good beforehand for yourselves, and be careful (of your duty) to Allah, and know that you will meet Him, and give good news to the believers.

    004.034
    YUSUFALI: Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband’s) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).
    PICKTHAL: Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.
    SHAKIR: Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.

    • Quran Alone said

      That’s funny how you called these ‘actual verses’ when you don’t even accept these verses as true. What a dishonest way to dispute. Why do you made these 3 translators as a benchmark from the translation I brought? My referred translations translated based on the original language context, these translations you brought forth were a different case. Thus the ‘shameless’ change of words into it’s proper context.

      • jim said

        I don’t have to “believe” or “accept” the koran as word of god to “know” that they are in the Koran. Too much logic for you?

        As for the verses which I have posted, the link has been provided below. Though these are one of the most widely cited translations, even these are “whitewashed” for modern sensibilities. If you read them, the message is quite clear and consistent through the three translations. So there is no reason to disregard them and accept yours, especially considering my familiarity with islam and muslims. The fact that you present these as “evidence” of high regard for women does not show you in a very good light. However, if you insist on having 7th century standards of behaviour, please continue to do so.

        Cheers.

        bit.ly/aeVhdZ

      • sri said

        @Quran Alone,

        You clown, those translations have been verified and certified by mafia gang like OIC (Organization of Islamic Countries) or Al-Azhar University of Egypt.

  5. name is not imp said

    someone told muslims dont use brain but read koran. do u know in how many places koran says to use ur brain??

  6. jay said

    Hey my name is jay and I’m jw what’s martial? And y women can’t leave the man without permisson? Bc I think every woman has a right to b independant not let a guy abuse her like a prize possession or sex object bc women do have feelings. And I was wondering about y men often mistreat women ?

  7. human said

    ‘no matter what muslims say or their so called scholars say..one thing is for sure and definite…the fuking piece of filth book ” quran” is a muslims life. whatever it says these pigs follow……whatever. muslims are the unevolved species..even a monkey has a far higher intelligence than the whole muslim population combined cause they use their brains. sadly this too goes for the muslim women. they continue to obey and follow the quran and if you try to “enlighten” them by telling them they have got more rights than this , believe they are going to attack you instead and protect their abusers or their so called men. you will only find helplessness while trying to help them.just utter helplessness.
    there is no hope for them for as long as this pig, the so called allah and its shit the quran exists …….the sumbags ,the monsters the abusers, the slaves of the world, the “muslims” will always exist.

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